Tumblr refugee looking to recreate a place to inspire and empower women to consciously step into their leadership, power, and Dominance. (34m/bi/sub/USA+Australia)
Never underestimate the power one can experience through the simplest of acts that would be considered socially taboo, but not ‘kinky’.
Experiencing power is a complex experience – some we want, other stuff challenges us, and some stuff we simply resist. Some might even just be considered chivalrous!
Only you can know which power is which with your submissive, but these expressions of power don’t have to be about graphic scenes, or elaborate setups. They don’t need to be messy, require money, or need lots of planning.
Here are some power play ideas that can be done subtly (or not):
1) Have him do something embarrassing for you so you can laugh 2) Spit in his mouth or on his food 3) Give orders to him in public then say ‘good boy’ 4) Watch him use the toilet or shower 5) Give him feedback in front of your friends & have him thank you 6) Make him lick your fingers clean 7) Chew his food first then allow him to eat 8) Order his meals and drinks at the restaurant 9) Make him open all doors, and pull all chairs 10) Use him as furniture 11) Take things from him and enjoy them for yourself 12) Beckon and point to the floor when you call him in public 13) Remove all stimulus and have him sit and think about you 14) Violate and abuse his personal space with your feet and hands 15) Order him out of a chair so you can sit in it
There’s many more, but whenever you are out in the world and think something would be rude, or inappropriate, take a moment to think about whether it would make a nice addition to the ways to reinforce your dominance over him.
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Never underestimate the power one can experience through the simplest of acts that would be considered socially taboo, but not ‘kinky’.
Experiencing power is a complex experience – some we want, other stuff challenges us, and some stuff we simply resist. Some might even just be considered chivalrous!
Only you can know which power is which with your submissive, but these expressions of power don’t have to be about graphic scenes, or elaborate setups. They don’t need to be messy, require money, or need lots of planning.
Here are some power play ideas that can be done subtly (or not):
1) Have him do something embarrassing for you so you can laugh
2) Spit in his mouth or on his food
3) Give orders to him in public then say ‘good boy’
4) Watch him use the toilet or shower
5) Give him feedback in front of your friends & have him thank you
6) Make him lick your fingers clean
7) Chew his food first then allow him to eat
8) Order his meals and drinks at the restaurant
9) Make him open all doors, and pull all chairs
10) Use him as furniture
11) Take things from him and enjoy them for yourself
12) Beckon and point to the floor when you call him in public
13) Remove all stimulus and have him sit and think about you
14) Violate and abuse his personal space with your feet and hands
15) Order him out of a chair so you can sit in it
There’s many more, but whenever you are out in the world and think something would be rude, or inappropriate, take a moment to think about whether it would make a nice addition to the ways to reinforce your dominance over him.